I hope you took time to reflect on Part I
before continuing. If not here is the link to part one Teenage Dating Question Part 1. It’s important to
start examine your understanding of teenage love and how to keep them from
growing up too fast.
Now the SEX thing is the other part of this
physical intimacy aspect that has everything to do with ‘what you are doing “TO
EACH OTHER”. YES I said “TO EACH OTHER”. This is the highest form of physical
intimacy (bonding) that we will touch on later in this discussion. There is a
big difference with these two types of intimacies.
Our Society has managed to confuse this ISSUE
and caused us to be so dizzy-headed, that we do not know if we are coming or
going, which simply means: WE’VE LOST ALL DISCRETION. Our children, who are
still children, want to engage in adult activities and yet they DO NOT KNOW HOW
TO THINK AND FUNCTION AS AN ADULT.
Now how insane is this attitude! I mean because
they have not learned how to be fully responsible for themselves, this mindless
behavior that is rampant everywhere, has given our children false images of
what a happy couple is or has made them think that a happy couple is not
attainable as some have suggested.
This mindless behavior is plastered all over
the Television Media as acceptable behavior and has literally destroyed the
concept what “A Happy Home” could be. This new condition is our state of mind
that we are experiencing now, and is causing us to make life changing decisions
with very little discretion or discernment. By having no discretion, we are
bound (by the simple rule of actions) to indulge and entertain so many
painfully, heart-breaking experiences that would take almost a lifetime to fix
or heal from.
This is the reason why there are so many
broken homes, dysfunctional families, and so many MEN raising other MEN’S
children. Do you know what I mean? How many mothers have children from
different MEN because she is trying to find “Mr. U got the right one baby”? How
many MEN are fathering other MEN’S children because he wants to be with the
person he loves? How many mothers are not in love with their child’s(ren’s)
father and they are struggling to stay with him anyway, so they don’t have to
deal with the many baby daddies syndrome. I mean this is EPIC (Ensured
Pathological Incompetent Consequences).
This is our experience today. This is the
direct result of negative legislation, programs, and media influence that has
interfered with Parental Rights and Guidance. Trust me, when I say, “Every
action causes a reaction”. Somewhere along the way the Media, by the power
airwaves, has managed to take these very complex matters of Love and made it
unclear and undefined for our magnificent minds to grasp. So in my next update
I will define “WHAT DATING IS”, so we all can be on the same page.
