I was recently asked "HOW TO ADDRESS A
TEENAGER WHO IS ASKING THE 'CAN I DATE NOW?’ question”. This is a very, very,
good topic to discuss. In fact it is the 'hot topic of today' and an extremely important
topic for our youth.
For you readers who would like a simple
answer, I wish there was a simple answer for this subject. However, because
this topic is complicated I will do my best to MAKE IT AS PLAIN and simple as
possible.
I will begin by saying this:
PARENTS!!! Please
keep in mind that the “Power of LOVE” is truly all encompassing. The age and years of a person does not stop this powerful emotion from
affecting how one feels about oneself and others.
LOVE is a very powerful emotion. It creates within you, feelings, thoughts and
other emotions that almost seem unimaginable or impossible to conceive. Do not
underestimate this Truth. It is an Mystical concept because it is a feeling
that goes beyond logic, common sense, rational or reasonable thinking, and yet
it is the main motive for why we create, go to work, go to school, build a
house, have a business, have children, and own all manner of devices and engage
in all manner of activities. LOVE is amazing and that is a fact. It is this
driving force that makes us ‘go crazy’ when we cannot possess or keep safe what
is deemed to be called this “Love Experience”.
There are so many bizarre stories out there
that testify what a person will do or go thru for “LOVE”. You may ask, ‘How
does this apply to this topic?’ Well
take a moment and consider this truth. “Real
Love” is conceivable or possible for two young teenagers. I repeat. “Real Love”
is conceivable or possible for two young teenagers. They can grow or be in love with each other,
and one can conclude that this is LOVE.
Looking at this aspect from a higher
perspective, Heaven can see a real love connection (some call it AURA) between
two youngsters when family and friends can be totally oblivious of this fact.
How do I know this? Because it happened to me.
I did not know what it was at the time and
later on in life when I had to face this ‘LOVE EXPERIENCE” of mine, I was in
denial. I wish I had someone knowledgeable about this subject guiding me, for
this would have truly saved me from all the unnecessary heartache and hardships
that I had to endure because of my foolish acts and decisions.
One aspect of LOVE I know for sure is that
when two persons are in love they would never need to show this outwardly
because it is how they both feel about the other on the inside. Keep in mind that wanting to become
physically intimate in any form or fashion with someone has nothing to do with
being in love with someone.
You can be in love with each other and never
ever touch, feel, grope, caress, kiss, rub, hug, or have any type of
physicality with each other. WHY? Because being in love is a “state of mind”.
It is mental. It is a mutual experience of thoughts that are in constant
reciprocation. When one is in love you only need to be in their mere presence,
that’s all.
So when you are thinking about becoming physically intimate with someone in a
public or private manner, this means that you want to bring “this feeling of
love” that is on the inside out into the open for the one you love to
experience and for all others to see. By one’s actions you are declaring that
your desire is to take ‘this love experience’ to another level, for the purpose of creating an unbreakable
bond.
By holding hands, kissing, spending one on one
time with each other, engaging in different activities, this is just another
simple way of learning how to become physically comfortable with each other (which
is another form of bonding), and for the higher purpose of telling the rest of
the world “hands off”, this one belongs to me.
While you both have decided to bond with each
other in this physical way or manner, you are also giving the message to
family, friends, God, the angels, and everyone else, that you want them to
acknowledge this bond and not interfere with what you are doing WITH each
other. Yes I said, “WITH” each other.
(Stop here before going to Part II for
the conclusion of this topic which discusses the sexual intimacy aspect. Take a moment to reflect and be honest about
what you see.)
